Linet with Mosquito net and ARV`S given to her |
By Njeri Mwangi in Busia
County
Linet
Nabwire vividly remembers meeting John (name withheld). She was heading home
from school where she had just enrolled in form 1 at a school in
Budalangi,Busia County,Kenya.
For
the following days, John would patiently wait for Linet to finish her classes
by the school gate before taking a walk together. In a week`s time, the two had
become more than friends and Linet started visiting John at his house.
One
thing led to the other and for the first time in her life, Linet gave in to
John and they had sex. For the following 3 months, Linet missed her menses and
the teachers began taking closer looks at her. She was pregnant. “I was sent
away from school after teachers confirmed I was expectant,” she say.
At
16, and a school dropout, she had not prepared for the baby and her parents had
refused to take care of her. This forced her to move in to John's rental house.
“I had to get married since I did not have anywhere else to go,” she remembers.
In
April, Linet visited Port Victoria District Hospital to start her antenatal
clinics. It was here that she got the shock of her life. “I did several tests
after which a nurse called me in a small room and told me I was HIV positive,” she
says amid tears.
We
met Linet at the HIV Comprehensive Care Center (CCC) at Port Victoria Hospital
on her second clinic follow up visit.
Alice
Keboga, a nurse is conducting counseling sessions. From a distant, one can
notice the attention Linet is giving to the lessons. While leaving the room,
the young expectant mother is all smiles. “I have been assured that my baby
will be protected if I follow doctor's advice and take the Anti-Retrovirals
(ARV's) given to me on a daily basis and in same intervals,” she tells me.
For
fear of her parents, Linet has decided not to disclose her status to her
family. Her husband who is a driver has been away from home for 3 months now.
“He left home for a safari and we haven't talked in all this time,” she says.
Though
she is worried John could have taken off and decided never to return, she is
hopeful that her baby will turn negative at birth. “I have wanted to tell him
of my situation but his phone never goes through,” she tells us.
She
has now turned to the lake side activities to fend herself. “I buy omena and
sell since I have to meet family needs.” She is hopeful that her family will
one day accept her back.
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